Yes, I’m an abnormal woman for being a camgirl

This letter was sent to the “Camgirls Sexual Confessions” section; however, I found it more appropiate to share it in the” Bullying and Social Harassment” section. Thanks to the person who wrote it and shared it with us:

“Many women who have decided to be camgirls have  to confront our partners to tell them what we really do. Many of us  had to create a web of lies because of fear of telling the truth and losing that person we feel “in love with” and who is “fundamental” to our happiness. It’s clear, that “macho-man attitude” is something rooted in our society and of course, many of our boyfriends, husbands, or whatever we want to call them, are not exempt from being a part of it. That’s why I decided to write this to anyone who rejected me, judged me for my work and never wanted to actually listen to me:

Do you remember when you told me how important I was for you and how much you loved me? Do you remember the moments we shared filled with joy and affection ? Do you think it was another woman while I was with you? Let me tell you that I was, I am and I will be always the same. I am no less than those women you may say “have dignity” and “are normal” because they work in an office or have some degree, I am also a professional and I decided to be a camgirl because it gave me freedom to love and enjoy what I am as a woman.

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I do not pretend to blame you, but when i was by your side I had to restrain myself from many things, simply because I didn’t want you to think that embracing my sexuality in a free and spontaneous way, made me a “bad woman”. You need to understand this, my work, although it is different and breaks social stereotypes,  should not be seen as something bad.

Behind a camgirl there’s a woman who loves, dreams, cries, laughs, desires, fantasizes, and fights. Many are mothers, aunts, sisters, and we are not less than anyone and we deserve the same respect and love as a “normal” woman, so if you think that by empowering my sexuality and feeling happy and free I’am less of a woman, I enormously thank you for leaving. I feel sadness, I won’t deny it, however I deserve so much more, and I know maybe one day a man will come who knows that loving is not binding or inhibiting, that love is free and there is no problem if it does not arrive when you expect it. I feel the affection and respect of many men , so I don’t think one more makes a difference. Anyway, thanks for everything, but it is your loss. “Abnormal” and splendid women, there are a few.

With love and confidence, I say goodbye.

An “abnormal and bad woman”.

SkyrallBlue